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Saya sangat percaya bahawa kata-kata itu adalah do'a. Kalau hati kita asyik tumpu pada apa yang kurang; asyik menyebut apa yang takda apa yang takda apa yang takda, lama-kelamaan memang sungguh kita jadi tak tinggal apa. Sebab itu saya selalu pesan pada diri: Biar ditiada apa yang tiada, jangan ditiada apa yang ada.

Happy birthday, Ikhlas. Semoga Allah pinjamkan Ikhlas pada bonda dan pinjamkan bonda pada Ikhlas dengan lebih lama lagi. Semoga bonda dilanjut rezeki untuk menumpang kasih Ikhlas dan diizinkan berkongsi Ikhlas sampai hujung waktu nanti. Semoga jodoh kita panjang, sayang. Insyaallah, amin ya rabbal alamin.

HM's headline today made me look feminist af. It's the truth, though. Sorry not sorry. When I started our support group and advocating this rare syndrome, it didn't cross my mind that we'll be approached by- err, kinksters and opportunists. (Maybe because I'm not one myself...?) (Kinksters means kinky people, like- "Uuu, no vagina? Lemme see.") Tapi itulah, dunia ni ada macam-macam jenis orang. Kita sebar kesedaran, mereka nampak kesempatan. Not being able to get pregnant mad

Ramai wanita tanpa rahim bertanya saya: "Tak boleh ke kita buat pembedahan transplan rahim?" Jawapan saya: "Bukan tak boleh, tapi belum lagi." Macam-macam benda kena lulus; dana, kepakaran, fatwa. But don't worry, we're all working on it insyaallah. We've come a long way and there's still a lot to do. At least now we've got the muftis and the fatwamakers talking about it. Alhamdulillah. Not too bad, eh? :) Banyak negara lain dah buat transplan rahim ni, dan banyak pembedahan

Something happened today. And it broke me into little pieces. Of all the years that I've been doing advocacy work for MRKH Syndrome, of all the years that I've been working with various media to create MRKH awareness in Malaysia, this is the first time ever that I feel supremely betrayed and disappointed. A local media outlet that was supposed to cover on MRKH awareness and campaign, decided to also write about my personal life - THINGS THAT WERE TOTALLY NONEXISTENT. I did no

Your girl did it. Today at a national university, she spoke about a congenital disorder, a rare syndrome, in front of an auditorium of medical practitioners and organizations' leaders, doctors and patients, educators and students, general audience as well as her MRKH sisters. I am not brave. But I come from a tribe of brave women in my family tree. I am not strong. But I am surrounded by strong girls whom I call friends-turned-sisters. There is no way I could gather enough co

Bila sesebuah hubungan itu putus, kadang-kadang tiada siapa yang betul/baik dan tiada siapa yang salah/jahat pun. God is just protecting you from each other. "Protecting" doesn't mean one of you is evil. Tapi "melindungi" kita daripada perkara yang bukan takdir kita. Yang kalau kita paksa, akan memudarat kedua-dua.

UNTUK SEBARAN: JUMAAT 20 SEPTEMBER 2019 FORUM AWAM MRKH / MRKH PUBLIC FORUM Salam sejahtera, Malaysia! Buat pertama kalinya, Jabatan O&G PPUKM mengadakan sebuah forum awam mengenai Sindrom MRKH dan ianya terbuka pada semua. Semua orang dijemput, terutama pakar-pakar perubatan (khususnya O&G), kaunselor dan ahli psikiatri, para guru dan pensyarah yang menjaga pelajar-pelajar perempuan, serta ibu bapa yang mempunyai anak gadis remaja. Wanita-wanita MRKH, datanglah bersama pas

Assalamu'alaikum, positive Wednesday! 1) I am grateful that my car's aircond is functioning perfectly and I don't need to wind down its window... because this haze got me thinking about vehicles without functioning aircond - how will the driver and passengers survive? 2) I am grateful that I have a comfy home for shelter in such hazy weather 3) I am grateful that I am a work-at-home / stay-at-home mom, which means I can stay indoor with Ikhlas whenever the school is closed 4)

Assalamu'alaikum, happy Sunday! 1) I am grateful that my parents are still alive 2) I am grateful that my younger sister is getting married soon to a good man 3) I am grateful that Ikhlas is so much loved by so many families and I get to share this awesomeness 4) I am grateful to find out that my husband eats ikan kembong 5) I am grateful that I have rezeki to spend on Ikhlas's birthday and as usual preparing it feels exciting macam anak nak kahwin 6) I am grateful that I got